I once went to a club with two of my friends, both equally beautiful girls, who remain close to me to this day. One of the girls seemed to attract unwanted attention from guys, while the other was left alone. It wasn't just their physical appearance that set them apart, but also their attitudes and energies. The girl who attracted unwanted attention had a troubled past and was still in the process of healing and growing. Her energy seemed to scream for validation, which unfortunately attracted all the wrong kinds of attention. On the other hand, the other girl had a strong sense of self and was not seeking validation from others. She exuded confident and whole energy that made guys respect her boundaries and not even attempt to approach her inappropriately. It's important to understand the energy we put out into the world and how it can affect the way others treat us. While it's never acceptable for guys to behave inappropriately towards women, understanding our own energy can help us navigate such situations better. Empowering ourselves with this knowledge can help us protect ourselves and set healthier boundaries. It's a tough lesson to learn, but an important one.